I have been reflecting on all my past experiences to try and overcome incel, and I reckon with the amount of effort, time, and money I placed in trying to overcome my fate, I should have slept with more women then Hugh Heffner… God knows I spent more effort, talked to more women, took more seminars, than 99% of the male population to try and become good with women.
Let me explain.. I was always a miserable failure with women growing up. I basically did not exist, all throughout high school, and college. I guarantee none of those girls remember I was ever even alive. Back in 2000, one night I was in a depressed drunken stupor, since I was 27 and never been with a woman, I was searching on the internet, about picking up chicks, and I came across Ross Jefferies. I promptly ordered his home study course and joined my local lair. I thought at the time this stuff is so weird and out there, it may actually work. I knew it would take a while to get good with it, so I made some like minded friends, and went out and sarged continuously. It was fun for a while, even as the numbers of approaches which were pretty much all failures started racking up. The rejection at the time was not so bad, because all the guys I was sarging with were getting rejected constantly as well.. We really did some over the top stuff, which was funny, but flat out did not get any of us laid. I was so roped in, that I even paid the $800 to go to an RJ seminar, which was the biggest waste of money and bunch of BS I have ever seen. I then called it quits on speed seduction, until someone back in 2002 told me about mystery and how he is the real deal, and all his followers are getting more poon than they could handle. I went out with a few of these guys, who all dressed like clowns, and they seemed to be getting much better reactions with women, and at the time, I though all those guys were getting laid (because they said so). In 2003, I signed up for a Mystery workshop. Now, Mystery at the time was the real deal, I have to say. He had women throwing themselves at him left and right. The workshop supercharged me, and I went out and bought thousands of dollars of wardrobe to change my style. Back to the approaching… During the next year or so, I approached thousands of women, and got rejected thousands of times. How many times did I have sex up to this point you ask? The answer is once. My non PUA friends saw who saw me out, thought I was the man, because initially I did get some good reactions… That is the thing about PUA, all of these guys approach, and to the untrained observer, it looks like the women are interested, but rarely do these guys EVER get beyond that. One of my friends at the time then told me about another budding PUA company called RSD and how he just took a workshop, and how their stuff blew everything else away, and how RSD was able to take what worked for mystery and compact it in a way that would work for the average guy. I was sold, and signed up for RSD circa 2004. Tyler (owen cook) and papa (Nick kho) were running the workshop, and I can tell you that Tyler is as big of a scumbag as everyone says. It is a this point that I started realizing that PUA is bullshit, and just a way to capitalize on desperate/incel guys who have money to spend. I continued for the next couple of years or so, doing thousands more approaches, until I threw in the towel in about 2006. Here is the final tally of almost 6 years of pua:
Amount of money spent on workshops/books/seminars ~$6,000
Amount of money spent on wardrobe ~$4,000
Amount of money spent on dates/club fees/drinks > $30,000
Amount of approaches > 15,000
Amount of wasted time = countless thousands of hours
Amount of girlfriends achieved = 0
Amount of times I have had sex = 5
Number of emails sent via online dating sites > 50,000
Number of dates achieved from online dating < 15
Number of women slept with from online dating = 3
Number of girlfriends achieved via online dating = 0
So you may be saying.. That rantsofanincel dude must be physically deformed… Not at all, I was always told that I am above average in looks, and I am in great physical shape. I have been told from so called master PUA’s that my problem is that I am too intellectual, and come across as a boring nerd.. Some comments made by women back this up as well.. WTF? I am an undesirable because I am smart, work hard, and do not have a criminal record, and my taxes have to pay for these cunts to boot. You cannot make this shit up..
Now, was this just me? I met hundreds of guys in the PUA community during these years, and not a single guy, who was originally unsuccessful ever became successful with women. I have met other guys (a small percentage) who were successful with women already, and wanted to become even more successful. In the case of those guys, their success rocketed to the moon. The reason being, is that PUA freed them from any and all inhibitions to approach/talk to women. The bottom line is if you are already successful with women, PUA will make you more successful. If you are completely unsuccessful, you will be in an even worse off situation then you were when you started. As I said, I have not met a single guy, who was originally unsuccessful with women, become successful with PUA. Most guys who are unsuccessful with women usually dabble with PUA for about a year or two, get rejected every single time, and then they drop out. Those were the fast learners. It took me 6 years, thousands of dollars, and thousands of hours of wasted time to finally do that.
So the point of all this is that since 80% of women go for 20% of men, just like a pack of dogs, if you are in the bottom 10%, you have NO options, period. You have a better shot of getting the rug pregnant, than getting a woman. I proved that with the tens of thousands of approaches with PUA, and absolutely no results. Most incel men would agree that being an incel is the worst form of psychological torture possible, lasting a lifetime… Most women agree with this as well, but only when it suits them (either way they don’t care). Women who can sense that a man who is a family member/acquaintance/friend is incel, will try and shine them on by saying crap like “It is ok to be alone..” or “you will find somenone”, but these same cunts will insult men who are incels, when they speak out, by saying crap like “it is comforting to know that these guys will die alone, never spreading their worthless genes.” Where is the justice for these men, as they struggle to hold on to their sanity? What about the thousands of incel men each year who quit, by committing suicide, because they cannot find a woman? Then you have big guberment providing support for fuckups/badboys, women and their babies, people oppressed in other countries, but what about the incel who is productive and pays taxes?